Posts

Showing posts from August, 2020

Dreams are not enough. You need to act.

Image
“They threw her to the wolves and she returned leading the pack” is a famous quote regarding the accomplishment of dreams. Accepting the responsibilities and making your own decisions leads you towards learning more practical skills. Look after your self and admit and accept your feelings without comparing yourself to others. Our sensations, ideas, emotions, thoughts    involuntarily becomes our dreams. If we want to achieve something in our life, we must have to set a goal first. Without proper guidance and investigation we can’t rely fully on destiny. In order to make your dreams come true, you need to live them. If you want to make your dreams true to life, you need to take the actions too. Without taking risk you can’t proceed a step ahead. Stop limiting your dreams for others or by taking their opinions. People with weak or dependent mindset can’t get the dreams achieved. But the motivation and passion of enlightenment in you, refuse to quit.  Life is full of opportu...

Overthinking about life, distracts you from it.

Image
Man has the power to change anything. The thoughts created in mind make up your personality. Your life is the reflection of your thinking. This life is also a drama created by the almighty and we all are the puppets dancing on his fingers. That’s why when you play your part , have fun. There is no one who is playing for you, thereby it’s your accountability to make it perfect. Situations and circumstances of life weather they are good or bad, you think about it. This is because you want to know the plus and minus points of the situation as it is directly related to your life. You want to be cautious that’s why you think. You want to be safe. However, the situations which are bad or problematic create chaos in your mind. Sometimes you can’t get rid of that state. Nevertheless you overthink because of your emotional feelings attached.  Yet it is true that the affairs are fragile. The situation arrived today may not happen tomorrow. This is directly related to our mental well being. D...

Joy and sorrow are the inevitable realities of life, and we should be grateful for them !

Image
  Change is under the sway of creation which is inescapable and ultimately the characteristic of life. Regularity keeps the momentum swing. While change is the source and origination of mind only. Life is also all about change. It’s dynamic attributes keeps it in motion and so our energy. Everything is happening according to the laws of nature. The destiny varies according to one’s karmic connection. Fate acts in a particular way. It includes the occurrence of events which are outside the control of a person. Joy and sorrow are the robust events of life which decide the being of a person. The past, present and future of a person depends on these two acts. Thereby, the existence of relationships around you. Happiness is something you feel from within which is eventually your state of mind. You can convert your every thought into joy.  Sorrow, on the contrary, is also an inevitable circumstance of life. Every person has to go through both happiness and sorrows in life journey. Y...

Unmade desires can rob your happiness !!!

Image
Turn every life situation into happy one. The things you are thankful for, always expand and then multiplies. You can never change this world and the things you see but you can change yourself within and that’s adjustment to live. Everything is within you, there is nothing lacking. Love yourself first then everything around you would be beautiful and you feel satiated.  The choices and desires you made in your mind is the attraction and reflection of outside world. The things you perceive, stuck into your brain and starts demanding accordingly. However, this can be fulfilled only if you have good economic position. But if you are not capable to do the same, the situations started to alter. Mind runs after the desires. Fails to accomplish the same sorrows surrounds you.  Griefs are constructed within us. Our brain controls our soul and heart. Mind don’t allow us to be free. Human became the slave of his mind. The cleverness is taught by the mind. Manipulating the things around ...

Empathy makes us more humane !

Image
The reality of each human being exists in their own mind. The brain connections provides the ways to communicate and share perspectives. That’s why if we see someone happy our mind allows us to be happy with them and same will be the case of grief and sadness. Ability to know the reality of another person sow the seeds of empathy in us. Therefore empathy means to put yourself into the shoes of another, in that particular circumstance.  To empathise means to feel and understand from another’s heart. To see the world and situations from another’s eyes. To be compassionate towards the emotions of another human being. Mutual understanding and sharing plays an important role to resolve the issues and problems. The affairs which are not disclosed properly will definitely lead to the undetermined faiths. Feelings changes according to the situations in life. These can be just compared as fragile. The expressions can be easily read by a person who has empathy in mind otherwise it can be mer...

Nepotism Imbalance

Image
Nepotism is the act of employing, recruiting and promoting, or encouraging a family member and nepotist is one who practices same. This sort of treatment is given may be due to own personal preferences and intentions. In business world it’s very popular and easily implemented in the form of favoritism by hiring family members and relatives only for economic and legacy purposes. For instance, granting favors or jobs to friends and relatives, without regard to excellence, quality, grades or merit, is a form of nepotism.  In business line it’s not unethical to hire your own family member because you own that venture from your investment and assiduous. It’s the owner’s choice and will to opt them as his successors. Perhaps it has trust issues or frame of mind. Nevertheless, successors also manifest dedication for the same as it is looked on as a evergreen custom so it’s not morally deniable. Nepotism  is in vogue in private companies also. But it can have unpropitious effects on a...